Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime.
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
The sobering reality is that negative sexual encounters shape behaviors and desires.
When someone experiences negative sexual encounters at a young age, they grow up without boundaries. These people are now magnetized to attract more negative sexual experiences due to the lack of boundaries.
How to Uncover and Move Past Hidden Trauma
Often times, the experience that the person had at a young age is hidden. Unfortunately, healing is impossible with hidden wounds.
Therefore, in order to uncover the hidden trauma, one must create a pattern interrupt to release that pain, confusion, and that traumatic experience so that the conscious mind can shift toward attracting people who have their best interest at a sexual emotional level. In order for them to have that for you, you have to have that for yourself first.
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